“Love”!!! - The governing principle of the earth. Even
after centuries of cutting edge technological advancements we still have got a
thing for the presumably corny idea called love. Why is it that we all
intransigent to admit to the very fact that love has got no meaning. Oops! I am
sorry. What I meant was “TRUE LOVE”.
Where all the men wait for their beautiful princess Rapunzel (may be men do not
like a “damsel in distress”, do you??? May be just a damsel??? You people are
better off without the traditional sappy, blushy, over-sensitive girls, isn’t
it??? ... too weak in men’s psychology... so, forget it.) and all the Women
wait for their “Knight in the shining armour”. Are you not planning to kill me
when I say true love is non-existent on earth? To find the truth, we have got
to decipher the cipher of the cupid. I don’t do brail though. Is true love
restrained to the fairy tales? If true love is forever, then why does it have
to end with a “true love’s kiss”??? Can
life be as good as or as happy as that of a romantic fiction after you fall in
love??? I know it is getting too interrogative. But a string of questions
haunt’s you when you try your hands on love. I am not here to answer those.
What am I here for??? The reason is unfounded. What exactly happens when you fall
in love? You first see the person and they appeal to your visual senses. Your
eye gets a little peckish for the visual pleasure that it derives from watching
each move of that person. You perpetually need a greater dosage. You become
addicted to the intoxication purveyed by love. Finally, you reach the tip of acute
addiction syndrome. But it is too late, because you are irrevocably apprehended
by your counterpart. Potentially perilous memories are spliced into the neural
receptors, resulting in a nervous breakdown of the victim. You lose our senses
and agility. Your minds stop functioning, it becomes stagnated like a pond and
dries up. Till we are enlightened with the stark of revelation that, “all lives
end, all hearts are broken. Caring is not an advantage.”
That was really a pessimistic hyperbole of love theory by
me. But we all adhere to our favourite doctrine of facts better be left to the
fiction. But it is inescapable fact that in this over burdened world, there are
traces of love and humanity still found. We did not give up the cult of true love
completely. Then, why can’t we stand each other for a long time in love. We don’t
usually hate or break up with our parents. Ok, “EGO” is a major factor. And the
minor factors include “ego”, “ego”, and “ego”... “we” is a very significant word
in love and once when we depart from WE to I, we go off tangent from long term
relationships, shredding our love like a wad of tissue. “We" is a state of mind and heart. It is a
telepathic connection. Here the absence of one partner is compensated by retrieving
them in their thoughts. Partners who consider themselves a "we" act
that way. When you talk to partners who live with and in the heart of their
beloved, you experience that commitment in every way they present themselves.
They communicate a pride in belonging to their partner. It's a powerful feeling
of "us" over anyone or anything else. So, this is a kind warning from
my side just to caution you from living a loner life forever...
R.Ramya J
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